Sheriff: Woman Sat on Toilet for 2 Years

By ROXANA HEGEMAN � 6 hours ago

WICHITA, Kan. (AP) � Authorities are considering charges in the bizarre case of a woman who stayed in her boyfriend's bathroom for two years, spending most of her time on the toilet � so that her body was stuck to the seat by the time the man finally called police.

It appeared the 35-year-old Ness City woman's skin had grown around the seat, said Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple. The woman initially refused emergency medical services but was finally convinced by responders and her boyfriend that she needed to be checked out at a hospital.

"We pried the toilet seat off with a pry bar and the seat went with her to the hospital," Whipple said. "The hospital removed it."

Whipple said investigators planned to present their report Wednesday to the county attorney, who will determine whether any charges should be filed against the boyfriend.

"She was not glued. She was not tied. She was just physically stuck by her body," Whipple said. "It is hard to imagine. ... I still have a hard time imagining it myself."

Police declined to release the couple's names, but the boyfriend, Kory McFarren, agreed to be interviewed Wednesday by The Associated Press. He identified his girlfriend as Pam Babcock.

McFarren, 36, told investigators he took Babcock food and water and asked her every day to come out of the bathroom.

"And her reply would be, 'Maybe tomorrow,'" Whipple said. "According to him, she did not want to leave the bathroom."

McFarren told the AP that he wasn't to blame, and that it was solely Babcock's choice to remain in the bathroom.

"She is an adult; she made her own decision. It was my fault I should have gotten help for her sooner; I admit that. But after a while, you kind of get used to it," McFarren said.

Although authorities said they think Babcock was in the bathroom for two years, McFarren said he wasn't certain how long she stayed there. He said she had a phobia about leaving the room because of childhood beatings.

"It just kind of happened one day. She went in and had been in there a little while, the next time it was a little longer. Then she got it in her head she was going to stay � like it was a safe place for her," McFarren said.

But McFarren said Babcock moved around in the bathroom during that time, bathed and changed into the clothes he brought her. He said they conversed and had an otherwise normal relationship � except that it all happened in the bathroom.

McFarren, who works at an antique store, said he has been taking care of Babcock for the 16 years they have lived together.

McFarren called police on Feb. 27 to report that "there was something wrong with his girlfriend," Whipple said.

Police found Babcock clothed and sitting on the toilet, her sweat pants down to her mid-thigh. She was "somewhat disoriented," and her legs looked as if they had atrophied, Whipple said.

"She said that she didn't need any help, that she was OK and did not want to leave," he said.

She was reported in fair condition at a hospital in Wichita, about 150 miles southeast of Ness City. Whipple said she refused to cooperate with medical providers or law enforcement investigators.

McFarren said that his girlfriend has an infection in her legs that has damaged her nerves, and that she has no feeling in her legs. She may wind up in a wheelchair, he said.

Authorities said they did not know whether she was mentally or physically disabled.

The case has been the buzz of Ness City, said James Ellis, a neighbor.

"I don't think anybody can make any sense out of it," he said.

Ellis said he had known the woman since she was a child but that he had not seen her for at least six years.

He said she had a tough childhood after her mother died at a young age and apparently was usually kept inside the house as she grew up. At one time the woman worked for a long-term care facility, he said, but he did not know what kind of work she did there.

"It really doesn't surprise me," Ellis said. "What surprises me is somebody wasn't called in a bit earlier."

Perhaps there's a relevant way we can somehow connect this story to music:
I wonder if she passed some of her time listening to songs.

exactly what can they charge him with? she's an adult, she didn't have to listen to him. there's no law saying you must go crying to someone when your gf is camping out in the bathroom... is there?

But where did the boyfriend go? Doesn't sound like he had a pot to in

if she was stuck that long..and he lived with her..where did he go when he..uh..had to go?
the corner macdonalds?
hakehead:

rhth!..you beat me to it

"I wonder if she passed some of her time listening to songs..."

I wonder if we're going to have fun thinking of appropriate songs she could have listened to

I heard this last night and it still sounds like a bunch of crap to me!

i know one..goin down the drain..tom petty

Lionel Richie's Stuck On Loo...

The acoustics were probably really good. She could have probably made a few albums herself in that time.

Didn't a band do that once? Cut a record in a bathroom or something?

This is a vision I could have done without. Thanks anyway.

"I wonder if we're going to have fun thinking of appropriate songs she could have listened to "

Yep, "Stuck on You" by Lionel Richey will do just fine, and so would "Goin' Down the Drain" by Tom Petty.
Hey, how about "Oops, I Did It Again!"

I'm with ShadowMom regarding images about that pitiful girl: Can you visualize sleeping on a toilet seat?
Constantly being on it is what's difficult for my mind to process.

"after awhile you get used to it" is the best line in any news story ever.

The sheer boredom would drive me stark raving mad. I love to read, but ... please!

Other songs she could have listened to during her ordeal:
"It's So Hard" -- John Lennon
"I Can't Stand Up" -- Elvis Costello
"I'm Hurting" -- Roy Orbison
"I Wanna Be Sedated" -- Ramones
"Poor Pitiful Me" -- Jackson Browne
"Nobody Knows the Trouble I've Seen" -- Mahalia Jackson

The following has gotta be the second-best quote in the whole deal:
"He said they [she and her boyfriend] had an otherwise normal relationship, except that it all happened in the bathroom."

Primal.

"Don't Look Now" -- Johnny Rivers; CCR
"What's Wrong With Me?" -- Hollies; Mario Wynans
"Don't Laugh at Me" -- Peter, Paul, and Mary
"I've Got It Bad, and That Ain't Good" -- Billie Holiday
"Helpless" -- Crosby, Stills, Nash, & Young
"Rescue Me!" -- Fontella Bass

I can't stand it - Eric Clapton
Stuck in the middle with you - Steeler's wheel

Awesome; kudos to leflaw!
(I'm glad he thought of those two -- they're super.)

"Stuck in the Middle" (as in the middle of a toilet seat) . . . that's gotta be the best of all that any of us have put here!

I could picture her sitting there, and then this oldie comes on the radio:
"You Can't Touch This" -- MC Hammer

And that brings up something else:
Should what she did be submitted to the Guinness Book of World Records, and perhaps Ripley's Believe It or Not?

On second thought, maybe I'm being a tad insensitive.
(Bad pessimist. Shame on pessimist.)

post-traumatic disorder;
obsessive-compulsive disorder;
neurotransmitter imbalance

Sympathy is probably appropriate.

I'll try to let things rest now.

Why don't we do it in the road?

I hear she's been given a seat on Dave Matthew's next tour ...

"He said they [she and her boyfriend] had an otherwise normal relationship, except that it all happened in the bathroom."

Primal."

So erm, how was the deed done exactly.. she was sitting on this toilet for two years right? Oh wait.... nevermind...